Embracing My Femininity: A Journey of Self-Discovery


Have you ever felt like you’re constantly carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders, channeling your inner Wonder Woman to get through the day? You’re not alone, my friend. Many of us have been conditioned to embrace our masculine energy, to be strong, independent, and resilient in a world that often demands it.

But here’s the thing - there’s a whole other side to us, a softer, more nurturing side that’s just waiting to be embraced. It’s called femininity, and honey, it’s time to unleash it like a fierce lioness.

So, how do we release the grip of masculine energy and tap into our feminine power? It starts with a little self-reflection. Take a step back and examine the roles you’ve been playing - the caretaker, the provider, the fixer. Now ask yourself, are these roles bringing you joy and fulfillment, or are they draining your energy like a leaky faucet?  Do things for yourself that make you feel more feminine.  Get your hair done, mani/pedi, spa days, shopping, or whatever makes you feel womanly.  

Next, create an environment and relationships that nurture your femininity. Surround yourself with people who celebrate your strengths and encourage you to embrace your authentic self. Find hobbies and activities that bring you joy and allow you to tap into your creative side. Whether it’s dancing, painting, or simply spending time in nature, find what lights you up and do more of it! Moreover, establish boundaries that are healthy and helps to cultivate a space that enables you thrive in your femininity.  

As you embark on personal romantic relationships, you should feel free, cared for, full of laughter, and respect just to name a few things.  If you’re a man reading this looking for insight, understand that a woman doesn’t need you to beat your chest claiming you are a man.  That isn’t necessary.  Show up!  Show up in a way that you would want a man to show up for your daughter.  

Ladies!  Stop giving men the blueprint upfront of what you and looking for.  Pay attention to how he shows up, to his intentionality, his actions vs his verbiage, his relationships with women in his family.  If it is in alignment with you and you feel safe, proceed forward with still protecting your vulnerability and heart.  

Now, onto reaching the fullness of femininity. Picture this - a life filled with grace, intuition, and compassion. Sounds pretty magical, right? Well, it’s within reach, my friend! But it requires a willingness to let go of control and surrender to the flow of life. Trust your intuition, embrace your emotions, and allow yourself to be vulnerable. It’s in those moments of vulnerability that true strength is revealed.

Need a little extra guidance on your journey to femininity? Dive into books like “The Tao of Pooh” by Benjamin Hoff or “Women Who Run with the Wolves” by Clarissa Pinkola Estés. These gems are packed with wisdom and humor to help you reconnect with your feminine essence.

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